जो बीत गई सो बात गई (Jo Beet gayi so baat gayi) जीवन में एक सितारा था जीवन में वह था एक कुसुम जीवन में मधु का प्याला था मृदु मिट्टी के बने हुए हैं— हरिवंशराय बच्चन |
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| Don't copy if you can't paste! Don't copy if you can't paste! A popular motivational speaker was entertaining his audience. He Said : "The best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who wasn't my wife!" The audience was in silence and shock. The speaker added: "And that woman was my mother!" Laughter and applause. A week later, a top manager trained by the motivational speaker tried to crack this very effective joke at home. He was a bit foggy after a drink. He said loudly to his wife who was preparing dinner, "The greatest years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who was not my wife!" The wife went; "ah!" with shock and rage. Standing there for 20 seconds trying to recall the second half of the joke, the manager finally blurted out "...and I can't remember who she was!" By the time the manager regained his consciousness, he was on a hospital bed nursing burns from boiling water Moral of the story: Don't copy if you can't paste! ( |
How to Break Out of Your Comfort Zone Over time, everyone gathers a set of constricting habits around us, which trap us in a comfort zone is, well below what we can achieve our potential. Soon, these habits slip below the level of our consciousness, but still determine what we think we can and can not do, and what you can not bring ourselves to try. As long as you leave these habits that you govern, you'll be stuck in a rut. As small creatures, soft body that build coral reefs, the habits of small and flexible start and end massive stone building barriers around your mind. Within reefs, the water is calm and cozy feel. On the outside I think it will be difficult and stormy. There may be sharks. But if you are to develop in any direction from where you are today, get out of the vein of the habits that mark the limits of your comfort zone. There is no other way. Even there is nothing particularly wrong with these habits as such. Perhaps you worked for in the past. But now it's time to go over them and into the wider world of your unused potential. Their fears do not know what is going to be there, so they invent monsters and beasts afraid to stay inside. Nobody is born with an instruction manual for life. Despite all the helpful advice from parents, teachers and elders, each of us must make our own way in the world, doing the best we can and often do things wrong. Messing a few times no big deal. But if you get scared and try to avoid all mistakes by sticking with a few "tried and true" behavior will be lost in most of the opportunities as well. Many people who suffer from boredom at work they are doing to themselves. They are bored and frustrated, because that is what their decisions have caused them to be. They are trapped in grooves that have dug for themselves in trying to avoid mistakes and take risks. People who never make mistakes never make anything right. It's time to clarify the habits that have the knowledge and you are running your life for you, and get rid of them. Here is how: 1. Understand the truth about their habits. They always represent the successes of the past. You have formed habitual behaviors, automatic, because once tried with some success, tried the same response the next time, and found it worked again. This is how habits grow and why they are so useful. To get away from what is causing your unhappiness and sadness at the workplace, must relinquish many of his most fond of Justice (and previously successful) habits. and try new ways of thinking and acting. Truly there is no alternative. Habits are a block to find new and creative ideas. No new ideas, no learning. No learning, no access to successful change. 2. Do something, almost anything-differently and see what happens. Even the most successful practices eventually lose their usefulness as events change the world and new responses are required. However, we cling to them long after their benefit has gone. Past strategies are bound to fail at some point. Let them become habits machines accepting checks is a sure path to self-injury. 3. Take your time and have a detailed look at yourself, without hindrance. Discover your unconscious habits can be difficult. To begin with, are unconscious, right? Then defense. Ask anyone who has stopped smoking if habits are hard to break. You used to them-and are at least as addictive as nicotine or crack cocaine. 4. Be yourself. It's easy to assume that they always have to fit to enter the world must meet to be loved and respected by others or face exclusion. Because most people want to please try to be what they believe others expect, even if it means an obligation to be the kind of person who are not in the background. You need to start by putting yourself first. You are unique. We are all unique, so saying this does not mean that you are better off than others or deserve more than them. You need to put yourself first because no one else has as much interest in his life as he does, and because if you do not, nobody else will. Put another second means giving them their due respect, not totally ignore. Keep an image of itself can be a burden. Clinging to an inflated, a realist is a curse. Take a break. 5. Slow down and let go. Most of us want to think of ourselves as good, kind, intelligent and compassionate. Sometimes that's true. Sometimes not. Reality is complex. We can not function at all without constant input and support of others. All we have, everything we've learned, there has been in the hands of another person. In the best of us, we in this life given to others, enhanced by our contribution. In the worst of us, waste and squandering it. So recognize that you are a rich mix of thoughts and feelings that come and go, some useful, some not. No need to maintain a facade, without pretense, no need to fear of what he knows to be true. When faced with his own truth, you will find it an enormous relief. If perhaps not as wonderful as you'd like to be, are not nearly as bad as the fear either. The truth really will set you free, freedom to work better and forgive yourself for being human, freedom to express their gratitude to others and recognize what we owe them, without acknowledging their feelings without letting it dominate your life. Above all, you will be free to understand the truth of life that much of what you get is nothing more than chance. You can not help and it is not your fault. There is no point in the battle against himself for it. What is holding you in situations and actions that do not work for you often is not inertia or procrastination. It is the power of the conventional ways of seeing the world and think about the events. Until you can put aside old habits, worn, which will continue to hold you prisoner. To stay in your comfort zone through mere habit, or worse to stay there because of irrational fears of what may lie outside, will condemn you to a life of frustration and regret. If you can accept the truth about the world and yourself, change what is slowing down, and move forward with a fresh vision of life, you will find that single action allows you to open the door of his self-imposed prison and get out there . There's a wonderful world out there. You'll see, if you try. |
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